When a 7-Day Irish Tour Turned Into Family: Derek O’Keeffe’s Unforgettable Journey With David & Donna
“Some tours go beyond the itinerary. Some guests become family.”
Meet the Cast
I’m Derek O’Keeffe, your storyteller, private driver and guide behind Private Tours Cork & Ireland.
My guests for this chapter were David & Donna Spencer, a spirited couple eager to see Ireland through local eyes. From day one their warmth matched the May sunshine, and I knew the week ahead would be special.
The Route in Five Quick Beats
- Antrim Coast – Giant’s Causeway waves greeting us with ancient basalt drama.
- Belfast – Titanic heritage and vibrant murals sparking thoughtful conversations.
- Galway – Buskers on Shop Street sound-tracking our sunset stroll.
- Kerry – Ring of Kerry panoramas where sheep outnumbered cars.
- Cork – My own home county, rich with rebel stories and seafood straight off the pier.
The Unexpected News
Late on day six, just as we were toasting in a cosy Cork pub, my phone rang. I learnt that my father had passed away peacefully. The world seemed to stop. Guiding guests while grieving is a test I never expected, yet the tour clock was still ticking.
Compassion on the Road
David placed a steady hand on my shoulder; Donna offered a quiet hug. They insisted we pause, but Dad had always told me: “Look after your visitors, lad—Irish hospitality first.”
So we continued, yet everything shifted. At every stop they checked on me, fetched coffee before I asked, and filled silences with gentle humour. Their kindness turned what could’ve been a lonely walk through loss into shared, human moments. It reminded me why I love this work: behind every “Private Driver Ireland” sign is a person, and behind every guest is a potential friend.
Lifelong Bond & Our 2028 Plan
On our final morning, we stood by the River Lee. I thanked the Spencers for carrying part of my grief. David replied, “Family looks out for family.” We sealed a pact: in 2028 we’ll reunite for a grand tour that starts in Cork and swings up through Scotland—because shared roads deserve sequels.
Voices from the Community
“Your story shows the heart behind Private Tours Cork. Slán go fóill!” — Love Ireland
“The way you cared for each other is exactly why travellers choose a personal driver.” — Peggy Dahl
“This proves tours aren’t just about sights but about souls meeting.” — Catherine Kane
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